Depending on who you ask, you will get varying answers to the question of whether working overtime is worth it or not.  The general consensus of opinion is negative, with research finding that working overtime has been linked to anxiety and depression. Yet clearly, not everyone who works overtime suffers either of these conditions… so what gives?

In pretty much every country in the world, workers are busy working overtime, whether it is staying at work longer, taking work home with them during the week and on weekends or even taking it on holidays with them.  When you work overtime, you are missing out on precious time you could be spending with family and friends or doing activities that make your life fulfilling and enjoyable and that contribute to your physical and mental health and wellbeing. Working overtime can also provide valuable extra income or flexible hours when you can take time off during the day when you need to, that is, provided you have a mutually satisfying agreement with your employer to enable that.

A business will most likely never ask you to stop doing overtime if they don’t have an agreement with you in place to compensate you, because the extra productivity they are getting at your expense costs them nothing!  The extra productivity helps them move towards their goals more quickly – they’re not about to complain.

The problem is what are you getting out of doing all that extra overtime?  What goals of your own are being worked towards or achieved, such as a promotion… payrise… bonus… etc.

Doing overtime is not a problem if it is something you rarely need to do and when you do it, you are compensated in some way.  It becomes a problem when you are doing it regularly for no more reward and your own goals are not being achieved.

Some people are required to work extra hours as part of a productivity agreement, but with this there is known  and mutually agreed compensation, however, what about those people who are doing overtime because they are overloaded with work and this is the only way they can keep on top of things? When this occurs constantly and there is no easing up, this will lead to anxiety and poor  health.  For your physical and emotional well-being, you need “time out” to relax and recharge your batteries. If you don’t, you will suffer burn out.  Not only is this detrimental to the individual, it will wreak havoc with their productivity at work.  In the long run, requiring an employee to continuously work overtime will backfire.

Some people are natural work horses and thrive on working extra hours in their career, regardless of whether the extra time is acknowledged and compensated for or not.  These are people who are also climbing a ladder of sorts, hoping for promotion, salary increases, time off, etc. or maybe they have other vested interests – either they are a part owner or shareholder.  Most other people are not programmed that way and need a more even work/life balance.  Even when compensated, too much overtime requirement is enough to lead to stress and loss of job satisfaction and productivity.

Those who are not particularly interested in their work in the first place are very likely to suffer anxiety and stresses when required to spend longer hours doing the very thing they dislike.  On the other hand, those who love what they do and maybe don’t even consider what they do “work”, are happy to put in the extra time with no ill effects.  Either way, it is only right that the benefits be mutual.

So, if a company wants to reach its goals quicker by getting more productivity out of its workforce and they are not prepared to put on extra staff and expect their existing staff to work overtime, what needs to be done? Compensating employees for extra productivity is a whole other article and it stands to reason that businesses must negotiate with their staff.  On an individual level, however, if an employee is suffering anxiety and stress having to do overtime, what do they need to do? 

A serious problem exists if employees are going into work early, working through breaks and staying back late on a regular basis because it is expected of them to do what it takes to get the job done. If this is rewarded and doesn’t happen every week and the employee is able to enjoy a healthy work/life balance for the majority of the time then there is no problem.  However, if this occurs regularly and the extra overtime isn’t putting a dent in your to-do list and you are not being recognized or rewarded, it’s time to speak up and review your situation. If you don’t, you are working for nothing.

When we start to arrive earlier, work through breaks, and stay back late, we often create a rod for our own back, especially if we say nothing.  You will be taken for granted and the company will think you are quite okay with what you are doing and may not even be aware you are working such long hours.  If you have created this habit for yourself, it is up to you to break it otherwise the extra time you are putting in will be expected from the company as opposed to being appreciated (and rewarded!)  Speak to your managers, explain you have created an unhealthy work/life balance for yourself and will be reverting to normal working hours in future, while making it clear they can still rely on you to meet deadlines and you will be there and put in the extra time when it is really needed – but not just as an everyday “habit”.

A common problem is getting management to notice that you are working overtime. After all, how can you expect any recognition and reward for doing overtime that only you know about? You can’t very well keep telling them how many long hours you are working without them wondering if you are cracking up!  You let them know subtly.  For example, if you hand over a report, when your manager says thanks, or if he makes a comment about how you made the deadline, just smile and casually say you stayed back to ensure its completion.  Another subtle way to announce the hours you are working is to send emails to your bosses from your work email while you are there working late.  This will prove what time you were at work because of the date/time of the email.  Likewise, respond to emails from your managers during these extra hours of overtime because again, it provides evidence by the date/time of your email.

If your overtime is a problem that needs your workload to be addressed by management, or you want to negotiate for a promotion or a payrise (or even an assistant to help you!), you will need more than subtle evidence to support your claims. If you are not required to use a timesheet, create your own record.  Keep note of the extra hours you work each day/week, and what you did during those hours – what you achieved. Companies will not be prepared to compensate you if you are just doing overtime to look impressive – they want to know you are really being productive for their benefit. You should not be doing daily overtime just to cover unimportant detail – overtime is for important and/or urgent activity. Keeping a record is also useful when review time comes around.

Now, if you are working overtime that is necessary and you are not being compensated for those extra hours, you must speak up – but do it in a non-aggressive, non-threatening manner.  Don’t barge into your boss’s office demanding extra pay “or else!”  With your overtime record in your hands, negotiate. If you are an unfortunate employee whose company refuses to reward you for the extra time and they give you the message if you don’t like it, leave… you have the option of looking for a new job of course, but also of just not working overtime in future.  You cannot be sacked for working the hours you are paid to work, and while some agreements actually do cover the requirement for some overtime when needed, the emphasis here is on “some overtime when needed” – not overtime every day for no extra compensation.  If productivity suffers and your workload begins to get behind, you have evidence that something is wrong and that you brought it to their attention. It is up to the company to negotiate with you if you are willing to work a certain number of extra hours to keep up, or whether the workload needs to be redistributed more evenly.

When you are seen to be working 50 hours a week instead of the 40 hours you may be hired to do, it doesn’t stand out to management who become used to seeing you do that and they may even think you’re happy with that because you’ve not spoken up.  You also run the risk of having management think you are not competent or capable of achieving what they may consider a reasonable workload in the hours they pay you to achieve it.  Instead of looking productive, they may see you as a time waster who has to work later because you’re not smart enough! When you do overtime on a regular basis, even when it probably isn’t really necessary, you diminish the effect of working overtime in terms of company recognition.

When you want management to see you as leadership material, going the extra mile when needed, will help you achieve that.  You don’t want “Oh, that’s Jack working late… it’s okay, he’s always here at that time.” You want “Oh, wow… look at Jack working late tonight. Isn’t he a reliable guy!”  It’s not fair, but that is often how it can pan out – when you do it every day, it becomes the norm… and ignored.

So in a nutshell, keep a record, let it be known subtly, and speak up and negotiate… because you deserve it.

Are you interested in having more income?

Review my book Sell Without Selling on your blog, personal or company web site on June 29th or June 30th and provide this link for people to get it at http://tinyurl.com/28ykazd and get one entry into the iPad contest.
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If so, you can get two more entries by simply doing a YouTube video review of the book and posting it June 29th or June 30th along with this link for people to get it at:  http://tinyurl.com/28ykazd.

Odds of Winning? 1 in 1000!
I am limiting this contest to 1000 unique entries, however, each unique entrant can have up to 5 entries based on the number of activities they complete .

 You MUST send the URL where your online, live review can be seen to admin@terrilevine.com upon which your name will be entered into the draw.

Good luck!

 To find out how you can earn free tickets, read on… 

There is no registration link for tickets to this special 2-day event because there is no registration fee being charged AND it will include admission for yourself and up to 2 adults. Think how useful this alone will be. You can “gift” admission to two friends, associates, staff members or business colleagues or you can impress two special clients or customers – because their tickets will cost you nothing and you can afford to offer them this special 2 day seminar.

This seminar, which I am personally conducting, will not be a thinly or otherwise disguised sales presentation for anything. You will receive 100% value from my 30+ years business building experience.

I will be discussing key issues for getting more customers, building sales and increasing profits in today’s competitive marketplace, and presenting you with a variety of proven strategies and techniques. You will learn simple, practical solutions for maximizing sales and profits with little or no increase in marketing expense.

Having helped companies in a wide variety of industries increase their sales and profits, many of the most effective techniques I will teach you are the result of “cross-pollinating” highly profitable techniques from one industry to another.

So it doesn’t matter whether you are a coach, consultant, accountant, chiropractor, dentist, hairdresser, masseuse, private investigator, butcher, baker or candle stick maker; it doesn’t matter whether you own the company, whether it’s a franchise, whether you are a solo-preneur, whether you are a small business with several employees, whether you work from a store or office or work virtually from home – I know what marketing and business building techniques and strategies work best for your business.

Testimonial:
“After spending a few hours consulting with Terri Levine, I made an extra $15,000 2 hours later! $15,000 from the ideas she gave me…”
~ Jemila Williams, Jemstone International

Of course, we’re not suggesting you are going to leave this 2-day seminar and make $15,000 immediately – but it is possible. You will leave with so many ideas to put into action, any one of them can make you money.

If your business is at the point of needing to know new and effective ways to stimulate sales, then this is a seminar you can’t afford to miss.

• Maybe your business is already doing well, but you want to do better and all the marketing guru advice you have tried so far just isn’t getting you there. Maybe you just need help wading through all the expertise available to make it work for your business?
• Maybe you have the time, money and energy to work on your business and you just need help putting together a strategy?
• Maybe you have the strategy but don’t know how to find new customers?
• Maybe you work too hard and have no work/life balance and need to learn strategies that will enable your biz to run on autopilot so you can take time out to enjoy your newfound profits?
• Maybe you spend far too much time ‘plate-spinning’ – the urgent gets in the way of important – and you’re not always sure which is which.
• Maybe you don’t have anyone to discuss ideas with. You can’t ask your staff, suppliers or customers and the phrase ‘it’s lonely at the top’ is familiar.
• Maybe you just want some unbiased advice on how to grow your company and take it to the next level? At this seminar, you’ll meet and exchange ideas with people just like you – all keen to grow their businesses, all frustrated that things just don’t happen fast enough.

There’s no question about it – bad marketing kills your profits and costs you clients. Your ‘loyal’ customers defect. And they never come back. Bad marketing lets even inferior competitors steal the business you’ve fought so hard to get.

My 2-day business-building seminar could put thousands on your bottom line over the next 12 months.

You don’t have to take my word for it – here are more testimonials from people who have taken my advice and knowledge and really run with it for amazing results: http://www.terrilevine.com/testimonials-3

My charge for such a comprehensive 2-day seminar is usually around $1000 and the only reason I am doing it for free is to show my appreciation to those who take part in a special “Sell Without Selling” book promotion I am doing at BN.com on June 30th ONLY – not before or after, but ON June 30.

Book Review: Extraordinary! Quick read with a powerful new perspective on sales!

Posted May 18, 2010, 5:37 PM EST: Terri Levine is a brilliant marketing expert who teaches only proven strategies that she uses in her own outrageously successful business. She has written a wonderful parable in which she shares her most powerful selling secrets. Her methods are easy to learn and easy to implement. Don’t be fooled by the simplicity of the ideas; they are more powerful than you can imagine! This book is a must read!
~ Amber Dupois

This is where you’ll go on June 30:  http://tinyurl.com/28ykazd

So what do you have to do to gain access to this 2-day business building seminar and admission for 2 friends or biz associates?

On June 30, through BN.com only, (NOT Amazon!), buy 35 or more copies of my book Sell Without Selling – each must be purchased individually, separately, one at a time. Please make sure you understand that important caveat!!!!!!  Then you must email those 35 individual book receipts as per below…

What will you do with 35 copies?

• Give to clients
• Gift to friends
• Use as holiday gifts for biz associates and customers
• Include in your own special “packages” you sell
• Donate to local charities to help teach people how to get work and gain valuable recognition for yourself
• Use as special giveaway prizes to your mailing list

And check with your accountant – it could well be this is a tax-deductible business expense for you!

The 2-day business-building seminar will be held July 15-16 in the Philadelphia area at a venue to be advised.

Information will be sent to you regarding the seminar once you send your 35 BN.com receipts to admin@terrilevine.com.

Remember – you must buy 35 or more copies – individually (one by one, NOT 35 bulk in one order)( of Sell Without Selling from BN.com ON June 30th – not before or after, but ON that date only.

This could well be one of the best investments you ever make in your business success. If you are in business, why wouldn’t you?

Go ahead, grab your copies right here on June 30th: http://tinyurl.com/28ykazd 

Then you email your 35 receipts to admin@terrilevine.com and you and 2 friends whose names you will need to advise will be registered.  Considering what you will gain, the little extra time it takes to order individual copies and email the individual receipts will be well worth your time!

Terri ]]> http://www.terrilevine.com/how-you-2-friends-can-earn-free-tickets-to-a-special-2-day-seminar-with-terri.html/feed 1 http://www.terrilevine.com/10-quick-tips-to-make-money.html http://www.terrilevine.com/10-quick-tips-to-make-money.html#comments Fri, 25 Jun 2010 16:40:07 +0000 admin http://www.terrilevine.com/?p=820 1. Build a mailing list of customers and potential customers. Do you ask for contact information on your website when people sign up for a newsletter or free product? Do you ask for contact info from people who contact you for information? Do you ask for contact info from people who attend your seminars or teleclasses? Do you encourage referrals from existing clients?

You don’t have to manage your list yourself, manually, although that is possible via email programs and online forums such as Yahoo Groups (free). You can use online services such as http://www.1shoppingcart.com and http://www.shoppingcartforcoaches.com, and http://www.constantcontact.com – all services that help you manage your client databases and also provide other services.

It is cheaper, easier and quicker to sell to an existing database of interested customers than have to continually seek out new customers.

2. Establish a newsletter – this can be an online ezine or a paper newsletter mailed. Of course, the online ezine is much cheaper to employ. A newsletter provides valuable information for your existing and potential clients, and establishes you as the expert. It also makes it easier to sell your valuable products and services. You can send a newsletter from your own email program until your database grows and as with any other database, you can find free as well as paid for services. You can send a newsletter via Yahoo Groups, www.1shoppingcart.com, www.topica.com, www.constantcontact.com and various other professional newsletter service providers.

3. Promote yourself! A press release that promotes you, your service or product is worth its weight in paid advertising, whether it be on line, in print, on radio or TV. It gives you and your product instant credibility, and with that comes new customers willing to trust you and give you a try. You can use a paid service, such as www.prweb.com or you can list your press releases on various free sites yourself. Another way to promote yourself is by writing articles, which can be distributed on many free sites providing another source of credibility. Make sure you also upload some of your articles on www.ideamarketers.com which will enable others to use your articles in their own newsletters – you won’t get paid, but you will get a load of free publicity!

4. Another way to earn extra income is to hold seminars and teleclasses. Record them so you can sell the recording. If you have valuable information, people will pay for it. You don’t have to use expensive paid for services – services such as www.nocostconference.com will provide you with a teleclass number and record it for free. You can take registrations manually but it is easier to use a service such as http://www.shoppingcart.com which will handle payments, etc. (Yes, this is the same service that handles your database, your newsletter, autoresponders, etc.)

5. Make sure your website is user friendly and access to your products and services and ways to pay are user friendly. Promote your products and the direct URL to your shopping page to your newsletter, in press releases, articles and social networks.

6. Leverage your time and resources – find ways to make one thing go further. An e-book can become several articles and press releases, special reports and bonus giveaway docs, and a seminar or teleclass, for example.

7. Upgrade your skills and widen your service/product base. The more you have to offer, the more clients you can attract. Maybe you can partner up with somebody who offers complimentary services and products and offer each other’s lists your services. That way you don’t have to know everything, but being able to offer the extra services is attractive to customers and a win-win for you.

8. Do joint ventures – for the same reason as above. Joint ventures are designed to be a win-win for both partners. Which businesses could you do a joint venture with?

9. Can you automate some of your regular tasks thus saving you time and money? Are you doing something manually or paying somebody to do something manually that can be done in half the time by a new program?

10. If you are a coach or consultant, consider offering group coaching programs whereby you coach several clients at the same time in a group format rather than individually. You will still earn the same money, but you will save a lot of time which will enable you to explore other money making ventures. If you are in some other line of business, what can you do in your business that will enable you to achieve the same in less time while enjoying the same or higher income?

How many times have you heard someone say, “Losing my job was the best thing that ever happened to me!”  Does hearing this sentiment make you scratch your head in puzzlement?  How could something so negative be so positive?  What’s the person’s secret?

Few of us begin our careers with the intent of doing something else.  After all, we’ve invested quite a bit in getting to where we are.  Much like Humpty Dumpty, we proudly sit atop our wall of achievements and accomplishments giving little thought to doing anything else.  However, with today’s winds of change, it’s pretty likely that sometime in our working lives we will find ourselves tumbling from our safe perch. For most of us the great fall occurs when:

• Our job is eliminated through downsizing.
• Our company is acquired or merges with another company and the new situation no longer appeals to us.
• Our job stays the same but we just can’t get excited about it anymore.

So, after the great fall what are the secrets to putting yourself back together again – better than ever?      

Secret 1: Accept that you must let go of things from the past.  By its very definition, change begins with an ending.  Acknowledge the loss and your feelings associated with it.  Realize that it is perfectly normal to feel sadness and some confusion or chaos.  Seek support from friends, family members, a therapist or a personal coach.  Work through these feelings.  Don’t deny or ignore them.

Secret 2: Take a close look at your previous endeavors.  Consider each of your past jobs a “test drive”.  What are the lessons that can be learned?  What aspects did you enjoy?  What things did you tolerate?  What made your blood boil?  What energized you?  What were you most proud of accomplishing? Do you see any common threads appearing?

Secret 3: Get to know yourself really well.  It’s the best investment you can make in your future.  Identify your skills.  Listen to your desires.  Write a list of your needs and wants.  Look at the labels you’ve given yourself.  Embrace your values and special gifts.  Celebrate your passions.  Liberate yourself from the beliefs you drag around like a ball and chain.  While it may sound simple, this step can be quite daunting.  As the familiar saying goes, “It’s difficult to see the picture when you’re inside the frame.”  You can jumpstart this discovery process by partnering with someone who is objective, honest and dedicated to your success – such as a personal coach or a career counselor.  Working with a partner dramatically expands your perspective and keeps you anchored as you explore uncharted waters.

Secret 4: Create a destination with soul.  Just as change begins with an ending, change ends with a new beginning.  Set your sights on a place where your head lines up with your heart.  A place built upon the solid foundation of your values, special skills and unique gifts.  Use your magic wand and paint the perfect setting for your future.  What features from your previous “test drives” do you want to include?  How can you best honor your values and share your gifts?  Where do you want to be in five years?  How do you want to be spending your time?  What does your home look like?  Who is in your life?  How do you feel? Give yourself permission to write down your dreams.  Don’t skimp on the details.  They are often the keys to unlocking joy.

Secret 5: Enjoy the journey.  Now that you know who you really are and where you want to go, the next step is getting there.  To make sure your trip is effortless, do some strategic planning before you start out.  When’s the best time to begin?  Does it make sense to break the journey down into small pieces?  What obstacles do you anticipate encountering?  What’s your plan for navigating around these obstacles?  What type of resources do you need?  What’s a realistic and energizing timeline?  How will you gauge your progress?  As you head down the road, remember to look around.  You don’t want to be so focused on your plan that you miss out on wonderful and unexpected opportunities along the way.

Energy.  Passion.  Happiness.  Balance.  Peace.  Joy.    All the King’s horses and all of the King’s men couldn’t put Humpty Dumpty back together again… but why wait for them now that you know the secrets?  To hell with the King’s horses and with all of his men, today is a great time to live the life of your dreams!

 Something as simple as happiness should come naturally to us, like breathing, but thanks to the stresses and challenges in life, many people have become confused.  They’ll be happy “when”… They put conditions on being happy that makes it difficult to achieve in the here and now. Some people have forgotten how to be happy! 

 If this sounds like you, here are some helpful tips to bring joy back into your life…

 We are all connected, yet we are each unique and have special gifts and talents. We are ALL ‘okay’!  We also tend to label everything as right or wrong, good or bad, etc.  Shift to the belief that no one is right or wrong, good or bad … they just are and accept that. Doing so will ‘free’ you!

 Release concern about others judging you!  What is right for you does not have to be right for another. It is easier to be yourself when you stop coming from a place of wondering who or what is judging you!

 Don’t try to change or improve others to meet your standards or to believe what you believe. You are not responsible for others in this way – again, free yourself!

 Are you unhappy at work, in a relationship, with your appearance, etc?  What’s stopping you from changing this?  People become stuck because of fear… fear of failing, fear of ridicule, fear of the unknown … Identify your fears and work to overcome them. 

 What ‘steps’ can you start taking today that will result in how you want things to be?  Small steps will still get you to that ‘destination’, but you’ll never get there if you don’t  make a start! 

 Get rid of negative self-beliefs… I’m not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough.  If your life depended on finding good things within yourself, you’d find them… start looking!

 We fret over everything as if we’re supposed to be perfect in everything we do. We put ourselves down at the slightest imperfection.  Well, everybody makes mistakes – learn from them, let them go, and move on!

 Know your values! We have our own sense of integrity and we are happiest when our goals and achievements match our principles. As we move towards the habits that align with our integrity, we feel good about ourselves.

 Know, specifically, what makes you feel happiness, otherwise, how do you expect to bring this into your life if you don’t know what it is? 

 Self-improvement!  When we develop ourselves, we eliminate many disbeliefs about ourselves; we stop putting ourselves down; we see possibilities; we feel peaceful, optimistic and joyous; and we have more fun.

 When was the last time you  laughed at yourself, or at anything?  Can’t find your sense of humor?  Seek out funny movies, funny books, or read the jokes pages on the web.  Start with a chuckle and work your way up!

 “Lighten up” is a popular phrase for good reason.  We have a tendency to take ourselves, our work, and our relationships too seriously. Some things are serious, but for the rest, keep it in perspective! 

 Think back to being a child, running around the playground, laughing, catching fireflies, and rolling in the snow. Remember how you felt, how you were silly and didn’t care if anybody looked at you?  What would it take to recreate those feelings today? 

 As we become adults we forget what it’s like to play games -  we’re too concerned about how other people will perceive us. What are you afraid of?  Has it occurred to you that others may think, “Gosh, I wish I wasn’t so hung-up so I could do that too!”?

  Do something completely out of character and childish this week. Go buy a silly toy. One of my clients plays with Mr. Potato Head! Find a way of making a heavy situation become light by asking yourself, “How would I respond to this if I were a child?” 

 Give other people permission to laugh. Put a clown’s nose on in the car and wave to other people as you drive around. Think of all the ways that you can play games and have fun, and do that with other people you come in contact with everyday.

 Identify your Stress triggers!  Our fast-paced lives, job pressures, the environment, etc. all lead to an excess of stressors for us. Manage your stress with Meditation, hobbies, exercise, yoga, nature walks, friends, etc.

 Don’t say “I’ll be happy if…” or “I’ll be happy when…”.  You only have “now” – you cannot live in the future until it becomes your present – your ‘now’.  You have no choice – it’s be happy “now” or never! 

Finally, don’t put conditions on your happiness! Happiness is a state of mind, regardless of our situation.  Happiness is a choice we make.  Choose to be happy today!

It’s not all bad news, however, because there are businesses that flourish and rake in high profits regardless of the economy.  Some of these entrepreneur owners didn’t know what to do either, but they learned. It doesn’t matter what you do in life, if you want success, you do have to put in some effort. It isn’t handed to you on a plate.

You can be successful too, if you avoid these 5 mistakes:

Mistake #1: Failure to have a Marketing Plan with a Marketing System to accomplish the marketing plan. Not having a marketing system that consistently, predictably, and profitably brings in new customers/clients who are eager to purchase what the business has to sell is the ultimate downfall of a small business. If you want to survive, you must have a marketing system. You can’t expect your business to grow if you don’t create an effective marketing system.

Mistake #2: Not knowing who your target market is and offering services and products to any audience who might buy. You must target your market. If you aren’t clear and focused you will not attract the clients you want. Without leads your business is dead. Leads are your potential customers. Some potential customers turn into money spending customers. That is the sequence for making money in any business. If your business doesn’t solve a specific problem for a specific highly targeted audience, you won’t make much money.

Mistake #3: Not using “leverage”. Successful biz owners leverage everything. Don’t spin your wheels creating a document, having conversations, and going to a workshop or anything else that doesn’t allow you to leverage all your resources. Think about how you can leverage your time, money, relationships and learning. Develop a system that helps you accomplish more in less time and make more money from applying the system. Many Entrepreneurs suffer from the “The Lone Ranger Syndrome” and try to handle everything themselves. This sets them up to fail because they eventually run out of time, money, health… and suffer from burnout. No one that is successful does it alone. Consider connecting with other Business owners and join a Mastermind group.

Mistake #4: Getting discouraged and not sticking with your business in full force. When the going gets tough and there are setbacks, getting stuck dwelling on what is lacking and what is going wrong is your downfall. Successful business owners know that persistence and determination are the keys to success. Look at the beliefs, behaviors and patterns in your business that are keeping you stuck and start on a plan, step by step, to make changes. Another way to increase your personal determination is to increase your knowledge. When you have more knowledge you can have the confidence to try out of the box ideas.

Mistake #5: Believing you don’t have to sell. Successful business owners know they are in the business of selling their products and services. They have dealt with any issues they have about selling and sales reluctance. They are clear on what exactly they sell including the features and benefits and how to language what they sell to others. They take selling actions every day and create business and opportunity as their main function.  Many people HATE to sell. They feel like they are manipulating others or being pushy.  If you’ve got an idea, be proud to sell it. If we have an attitude that people who sell are bad people, we’re not looking at the needs of people. Pretty much everything you have was bought. There is no manipulation, and you’re not forced to buy anything. Likewise, those who are interested in what you offer will be willing buyers. You are meeting a need.

It’s only if you hold a gun to their head, or threaten them or lie to them that you need to be ashamed of making a sale!  If you are coming from a place of honesty and integrity and wanting to serve others, you are doing people a real service!

Then there are those who tackle life’s challenges head on, who don’t run and hide, who refuse to sit down and quit… one way or another they are determined to taste success.

It’s not about opportunity – they can both have the same opportunities and challenges – that’s not what creates success… it’s attitude.

The right attitude is behind all successful people. When the going gets tough, the right attitude is what keeps them up on their feet, looking for new open doors, new opportunities, new paths around their obstacles, new ways to reach success.

Successful people look at a grey cloud and know there is a silver lining and are determined to find it and don’t stop until they do. Unsuccessful people see the grey cloud and figure it’s probably going to rain so may as well stay home and do nothing.

So if you aren’t tasting success yet, how’s your attitude?

We are creatures of habit. We also like to feel safe and secure. This is why many people stay in their comfort zones. This is also why many people never truly experience their full potential, and success and excitement eludes them.

If sticking in your comfort zone interferes with your growth and development and if it hinders reaching your goals, and if very little has changed for you in the past 5 to 10 years, it’s time for a change! Imagine if you chose to crawl all your life because the risk of standing on your own two feet was too scary… some people live their whole lives this way. But not us, right? So here we go with 8 tips to help you out:

1. Repeat after me: “Different is good!” Change your daily and weekly routines. Take a different route to work. Shop at a different mall. Change your hair style. Change what you “usually” eat for breakfast. Listen to a different radio station. Don’t let old habits determine how you live your life today – mix it up and have some fun! Be adventurous. Try new clothes. Change your style. Change the order you usually do things around the house every now and then. Get the idea? Find new ways of doing things.

2. Get a Hobby. Don’t let life be only work and sleep. Find time to resurrect a favorite activity – karaoke? Bootscooting? Amateur theatre? Wining/dining? Book Club? Sporting club? Stamp collecting? Cooking? Fishing? Golf? Coaching kids sport? Do volunteer work. Join a committee. Get out there and participate in something. If you are breathing, this message is for you: Life! Be in it!

3. Freshen Up Your Relationships. I’m not saying get rid of your old friends, but how about meeting some new ones? Anyone in your building or street or even your company that you think you might have something in common with? Find a way to engage them in conversation. Get to know new people who you see regularly but may not personally know who can introduce you to new activities. Maybe they’d like to join you for a quick, healthy lunch time or after dinner “walk” for exercise… maybe you both have dogs and can walk them together… maybe you have common interests in movies and can catch a movie together. Be creative.

4. Be spontaneous! Imagine… It’s a Saturday afternoon. You and your significant other may find yourselves with nothing to do – assuming your children are grown or maybe you don’t have any – grab a few essentials, toss them in the back of the car and head for the country… or the city… stay overnight somewhere. It will feel like you’ve had a holiday and you’ll go home refreshed. Decide not to cook one night and go out for dinner. Do something on the spur of the moment. Don’t feel you have to plan everything in life.

5. Expand Yourself at Work. Let your Boss know you’re ready, willing and able to take on some new responsibilities. Ask him how you can enrich your position by either changing some of the things you do or adding something new and interesting. Maybe there is something he does that you can help him with. You’ll score points for initiative (useful when the payrises and bonuses are handed out!), and make your daily work more interesting for yourself. I’m very big on working yourself happy… I even wrote a bestselling book about it!

6. Be a “new dog”! Who said you can’t teach an old dog new tricks? Prove ‘em wrong. Be a new dog and learn new skills. This might be something that can help you with point (5) in expanding your work, or it might be something more in the recreation field, like learning to play chess…. or Mahjong… or grabbing a Soduku book… or going to night school to learn a new language or arts and crafts… the list is endless… learn something new and interesting to stimulate your brain cells.

7. Look After Yourself. If you are what you eat, what are you eating and when you look in the mirror what does it say about your diet? Do you need to eat more healthily? Look online for healthy meal suggestions. Add healthy vegetables and fruits to your daily eating pattern. Replace cakes and biscuits with fresh fruit. Limit take-out to once a month instead of once a day or once a week. Drink more water. Instead of reaching for that mid morning chocolate bar, try a healthy muesli snack or some almonds. I’m all for eating healthy but I don’t believe in “diets”… I even wrote a book about that!

8. Still Looking After Yourself. Even if you are slim, trim and terrific, your body needs exercise to stay that way and to keep fit and healthy. You don’t have to go to a gym or take up jogging… a brisk walk for 30 minutes a day will do it for many people, especially if they work long hours or have other commitments that prevent regular exercise or sport. If it’s not possible or wise to go walking after hours where you live, look on ebay for a second hand walking machine and you can walk for miles while you watch TV. You can do that on an exercise bike, too. You can buy exercise videos and do them in the comfort of your own home at a time that suits you.

So there you have it. Eight tips to get you started and you may find ways to expand these and think of more fun things to do that will get you out of your rut and out of your comfort zone. Don’t let any one particular idea consume you or take over your life. It should be about balance. You don’t have to change everything… start small… start with a new way of wearing your hair… let your goal be than in 12 months time you will look back and can trace your development and growth and know you’ve stepped out of your comfort zone and really lived!