How to Improve Your Lot in Life
by Improving Your Life and Social Skills
If you lack in any of the essential life skill areas , chances are you are being deprived in some way – be it financial, fun, work opportunities, experiencing new exciting things, meeting new people, traveling, trying new hobbies, joining a group… the list of what you're missing out on can be endless.
And it doesn't matter if you are a housewife, an office clerk, a gardener, a secretary, a manager, a librarian, a sales person, a mechanic, a brain surgeon, a CEO, or even a Coach… what you do in life does not offer you immunity.
We are NOT all created equal. For example, we are NOT all born outgoing and confident knowing exactly what to say and how and when to say it. Many people shy away from certain situations in life simply because they don't know how to handle it, they don't know what to say or how to behave.
So, how do your life skills stand up? Consider these questions:
- Are you a confident, outgoing person, or are you a shy opposite? Can you mingle merrily or do you prefer dark corners? Or do you just make excuses and stay home?
- Can you stand up for yourself confidently or do you avoid confrontations because you never know what to say or you get all hot and say the wrong things? Or perhaps you say nothing at all and suffer in silence?
- If asked to speak in public, even if just to thank a crowd of people, can you do so without becoming lost for words, stuttering or blushing? Or is the crowd riveted by your witty repartee?
- Can you speak comfortably with your seniors and peers at work – could you ask for a well deserved pay raise or discuss a delicate issue? Can you handle the "no" word? Can you say it?
- Do you know how to handle difficult or argumentative people and remain poised and relaxed? Do you know how to handle ANY conflicting situation comfortably and easily without feeling or becoming ruffled and being able to diffuse them so they also calm down?
- Can you lead a group of people, or are you the person who hides at the back of the line? Does this fear of leadership hold you back from a much wanted promotion or new job opportunity?
- Does being introverted mean you miss out on opportunities in life that you might otherwise love to try? Is your life governed by feelings of timidity and fear that hold you back?
- Have you got a "to do" list that is now so overwhelming that it has taken over your life? Oh, sorry… you don't HAVE a life… you have a to do list! Or do you have everything under control and lead a balanced, fun life?
- Overall would you say you feel stressed, anxious, tense and pressured – mentally and physically, most of the time or some of the time or never? Or are you relaxed, at peace and feeling balanced and at one with the world?
- Do you have goals? Dreams? Do you want to know how you can make a goal and achieve it – even if you have a to-do list as long as your arm?
Any lack in the above areas is holding you back in every aspect of your life – your career, your relationships, your entire existence! You miss out because you won't try new things or speak up for yourself and everyone and anyone can, and probably does, take you for granted and walk all over you. And it doesn't matter if you're the one taking the orders or giving them.
If you are one of those people who avoids situations where you have to mingle with others, especially with strangers, and you know this is limiting your progress in your career and in your private life because you can't even go out and have fun because you're too shy or lacking in confidence, and you make a mess of things when you try to converse with people, and you don't know how to handle confrontations and speak up for yourself, or even introduce yourself to strangers, if you're stressed and overwhelmed and wish all these life skill areas were much easier for you, then I have GOOD NEWS FOR YOU!
Based on my professional coaching experience, I have taken 12 of the MOST NEGLECTED life, social and communication skills, skills that people hire me to help them with, and produced a 12-month program to help YOU begin to conquer each particular area of lack.
Commencing August 16 at 4.00 pm U.S. eastern , we will meet once a month for 12 months, on the third Wednesday of each month at the same time and start the process of changing your life for the better. (Note: In October, we will meet on the 2 nd Wednesday, not the 3 rd – that month only.)
The beauty of this program is you can register and pay for only those topics that interest you, or save 20% and sign up for the lot! You can book in advance or prior each month's call. Register here!
You will join a group of like-minded people (you can remain anonymous or join in), and get a one hour call each month with me covering the most important life, social and communication skills that will CHANGE how you live and experience every aspect of your life for the better.
After each call you can ask me questions. You will also be a member of a private email e-group where you can support each other, share stories and advice, and benefit from my input and coaching.
And each call will be recorded so if you miss the live call, you can listen to it later at your convenience. You can listen to it over and over until it is taped over the following month.
Each month you will learn a valuable new skill or reinforce an existing skill:
August 16, 2006 - Learning to speak in public without nerves
September 20, 2006 - How to handle difficult people and relationships
October 11, 2006 - Stopping personal conflicts
November 15, 2006 - How to lead better
December 20, 2006 - How to get more done in way less time
January 17, 2007 - Creating inner peace
February 21, 2007 - Living your core values
March 21, 2007 - Overcoming timidity and fear
April 18, 2007 - Developing a healthy self image
May 16, 2007 - Factors to learn to achieve your goals
June 20, 2007 - The formula to insure you have an attitude for success
July 18, 2007 - Stress? Find your balance…
Just one hour of your time each month can make a huge difference to how you experience and live your life. I will help you make that difference.
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Note: If you choose to take the recorded seminars, you will still have membership in the e-group and be able to participate in discussions online.
Sign up for individual teleclasses or access to audio below
August 16, 2006
Learning to speak in public without nerves... organizing effective talks.
Stop any fear and worry you have about speaking in public and learn the top
ways and fun ways to instantly overcome the fear of speaking forever. And
this isn't just about speaking at seminars. it can be your 'best man's
speech at your brother's wedding. your nephew's bar mitzvah. presenting
little Johnny with his trophy at the school carnival. as well as holding
talks and seminars!
September 20, 2006
How to handle difficult people and relationships... how to get along with
others. Bring nothing but peaceful connections to you in all your
relationships and know how to handle any difficult person or relationship
with a few easy tactics you can quickly apply. This may be a person at the
office, your spouse, a parent in law, a sibling, a neighbor, a business
associate. if they're breathing (breathing fire), I will help you deal with
them!
October 11, 2006 (2nd Wednesday this month!)
Stopping personal conflicts. Want to end having conflict which causes you
stress? Learn to create instant calm and harmony and end personal conflict
fast with tactics that work!
November 15, 2006
How to lead better. The secret leadership weapons of the most successful
leaders will finally be shared in a concise way along with what YOU need to
do to lead better instantly. Think outside the square. when you know how to
lead, you can encourage others to see things your way, which can help you
get your own way. Leadership skills can help you in many areas of life!
December 20, 2006
How to get more done in way less time. Do you spend too much time and
energy trying to do things and never get a real handle on all the "to do's"
in your life? Maybe you are juggling many roles and obligations - for
example, you may be a working parent - everyone has a piece of you and your
time. Learn how to get way more done in so much less time and create the
freedom and time to enjoy your life more!
January 17, 2007
Creating inner peace. How to create a joyful, stressless, easy and
effortless life starting by changing your thoughts, then your feelings and
finally your actions. Learn how to attain harmony of body, mind and spirit
regardless of what chaos surrounds you.
February 21, 2007
Living your core values. Most people don't really know their core values
but think they do. Learn how to tap into your soul print. You will
actually step into this process and come out with your core values and ways
to live them. Amazing!
March 21, 2007
Overcoming timidity and fear. Stop allowing yourself to be run over by
people, things and circumstances and don't allow your fear of speaking up
cause you to hold back. Learn the steps to begin to overcome timidity and
increase your self-confidence fast so you can make the most of your life.
April 18, 2007
Developing a healthy self image. Most of us never learned to create a
healthy self-image and walk around beating ourselves up and don't even know
it. Maybe you were put down as a child, or maybe you are just a very harsh
self-critic - either way we can help you! Here I will give you the exact
tools you need to improve your self-image in a snap!
May 16, 2007
Factors to learn to achieve your goals. Even those who set goals often
don't understand the factors which determine if your goals will be met and
how to meet them. You will learn the secret life planner formula for goals
so you can start being an achiever in your own right. Anyone and everyone
should set goals - let me tell you why and how!
June 20, 2007
The formula to insure you have an attitude for success. And this is success
in all areas of your life. Sometimes, without knowing it, people sabotage
themselves. The formula for success comes from your inner thoughts which
most likely you don't know how to re-wire. I'll re-wire them for you.
July 18, 2007
Stress? Find your balance. Through a specialized process find out how to
balance your life by taking a few small actions. This is not brain surgery
and this topic is always a lot of fun when shared.
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